http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/natural-cures-for-depression-blog.html Welcome to the Beat-Depression-Naturally.com Blog. It keeps you up-dated with additions and changes to the Web site. en-us natural cures for depression Thu, 04 Mar 2010 16:13:54 GMT Thu, 04 Mar 2010 16:13:54 GMT beat-depression-naturally.com http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/fear-of-abandonment-adult-onset-abondonment.html My husband, age 44, died of cancer almost 2 years ago. My mother died 6 months later (of cancer, but at 85) and my father died 6 years ago of cancer. Thu, 04 Mar 2010 16:13:50 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/treatments-for-depression.html Treatments for Depression: See how healing the root causes of your depression is the best natural treatment for depression. Wed, 03 Mar 2010 16:42:14 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/depression-poems-eclipse.html Eclipse Youre back again, How dare you be? You crept back in Inside of me. I started a war I fought you back I kept you away But Tue, 02 Mar 2010 15:42:11 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/how-to-overcome-depression-1.html How to Overcome Depression - the essence of self-mothering is the art of creating a safe space for your feelings. Mon, 01 Mar 2010 01:47:53 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/treatment-resistant-depression.html Treatment Resistant Depression: Six steps to creating an inner environment of emotional intelligence. Mon, 01 Mar 2010 01:47:22 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/lauras-comment-on-fear-of-abandonment.html THE MAN I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH NOW HAS HELPED ME REALIZE THAT I HAVE A FEAR OF ABANDONMENT. JUST BY HIM BEING SUCH A GREAT GUY THIS HAS HELPED ME Fri, 26 Feb 2010 13:50:12 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/index.html Natural cures for depression, how to deal with depression, natural remedies for depression, take a depression test, depression chat rooms, abandonment Sat, 20 Feb 2010 00:17:44 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/natural-treatments-for-depression.html Natural treatments for depression - Mind body and soul therapy. Go to your Source, for a lighter way of being. Mon, 15 Feb 2010 13:59:07 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/trying-to-figure-out-myself.html I've had a crazy life story. It always sucks when I meet a new person and they ask about my parents, I always feel uncomfortable and never know how to Mon, 15 Feb 2010 13:15:43 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/am-i-a-survivor-what-does-that-mean.html I have lived with depression for most of my life. I have experienced chaos and trauma as a child, which led me to struggle as a young adult. It wasn't Sat, 06 Feb 2010 00:17:37 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/natural-treatments-for-depression-truestories.html Natural treatments for depression: Testimonial's tell the real story of this treatment for depression. Fri, 05 Feb 2010 13:46:11 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/i-can-dump-people-the-second-i-feel-like-theyre-going-to-hurt-me.html I dump people as quickly as I love them. I can make someone dead in my mind. My mother taught me this coping mechanism. I am 39, never married and Wed, 27 Jan 2010 20:39:31 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/natural-cures-for-depression-blog.html#The-Courage-to-be-Love-in-Action Free tele-session on 1/26, 8 pm Eastern. Optional Prep: -1- Identify an action that you do or would like to do. Something that you care about that is meaningful for you. It doesnt need to be pleasant or ideal. For example: I am thinking about my family during the holidays. It could be family, your art, hobby, friends, work anything that has significance for you. -2- Now that you have your action: What are the conditions that you have around it? How does it need to be so that you are getting what you want? Ask yourself, What do I want from this action? In the example above, I would have answered: - I want to feel welcomed - I want to have interesting conversations that at times might include me and my workat least once (a year? ever?). - I do not want to be in arguments about politics, the environment, health care, or the economy - I want dignity, not shame, about my life path - MOST of all, I want warmth towards and from my family Your turn. List what you want and realizethese are conditions that you place. NOW what? How do you get to unconditional love? After all, you want what you want. What is wrong with wanting warmth (for example)? -3- Love in Action is recognizing your conditions and letting them go. If you need something from another personlike I needed from my family, then let it go. Realize, in a very SPECIFIC way, that they cannot, or have not, or will not, or may never ever, give you what you need, or be who you need, or help you feel how you need. Honor what you need and want. Accept that you need and want it. Recognize that you feel wounded, sad, angry, what EVER. Grieve that you dont have it and then LET IT GO. Shrug. Accept it. Imagine it is now the end of time and shrug well, THAT didnt happenoh well. Let them off the hook. Let them be who they are, and who YOU are. They just are, you just are. When you let them off the hook, AMAZINGLY, they will release and be able to move toward you. Theyityouwhat ever fits for your situation. Realize that there is something like this statement running your energy: I need _________(fill in the blank) to do ___________ so I can feel ____________. (Example: I need my family to approve and understand what I do so I can feel proud of myself.) Love in Action is when you do what matters to YOU just because it matters to you. And because it matters enough to do it no matter what the world reflects back to you. You do it and in the doing of it you find out what matters to you, and maybe best of all You find out what stops you. The courage part? The courage part of love in action is how much truth is required to get there. Tue, 26 Jan 2010 01:46:20 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/taking-care-of-my-son.html My husbands ex-wife gave up custody of her 5 year old boy 2 years ago. We took him in with loving arms and I love him as my own. The mom feels Wed, 20 Jan 2010 22:00:30 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/pls-give-some-how-tosmy-daughter-abandoned-by-her-dad.html My now exhusband, abandoned our two daughter's, ages 3 and 12 at the time...the youngest is now 12yrs.and the oldest is 20...the oldest seems to be Mon, 18 Jan 2010 17:51:56 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/fear-of-abandonment-is-knowing-enough-what-else-can-i-do.html I know that I have abandonment issues. My biological dad left when I was 3 and wasn't really a participant in my life from the start. I may have not Fri, 08 Jan 2010 20:05:25 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/ive-never-had-goals-and-dreams.html What about people who have never seen a future or had goals. People who have only known they were a failure or not good enough. People who thought Tue, 05 Jan 2010 15:45:47 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/depression-poems-who-will-cry-for-the-little-boy.html Who will cry for the little boy Lost and all alone? Who will cry for the little boy Abandoned without his own? Who will cry for the little boy He Sat, 02 Jan 2010 03:53:12 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/child-with-abandonment-issues-i-need-help.html I am married to a man that has a daughter. She is now eleven, and her mother left six years ago. She currently lives next door to us with my husband's Thu, 24 Dec 2009 04:09:01 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/fear-of-abandonment-georgia-boy.html What about abondonment.. from a girlfriend? Why does it seem so hard to just let go and move on for me, and so easy for Mon, 21 Dec 2009 14:18:21 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/depression-poems-what-if.html Life happens and you are a kid, you are like a deer in the headlights. Frozen, numb, shocked, freaked. Your heart pounds, physically Wed, 09 Dec 2009 18:33:07 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/links.html Beat Depression Naturally: Recommended resources Wed, 09 Dec 2009 00:45:55 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/fear-of-abandonment-me.html I have fear of abandonment issues. I remember crying a lot in my crib alone with ear infections. My father refused to talk to me when I was upset Wed, 25 Nov 2009 16:45:44 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/fear-of-abandonment-partners.html Visitors share what it is like to have a partner with fear of abandonment issues. Sun, 22 Nov 2009 17:34:43 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/fear-of-abandonment-3.html Fear of Abandonment:: Visitors share their abandonment issues. Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:30:59 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/child-abandonment-issues.html Child abandonment issues can be extra difficult to resolve. Ask questions or share your stories and ideas. Sun, 22 Nov 2009 16:10:38 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/depression-chat-rooms.html In depression chat rooms, you can share and maybe get free advice about abandonment, frustrations, partners, even share your depression poems. Sun, 22 Nov 2009 03:32:46 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/bleeding-cuts.html She's all alone in the empty world. And all you can hear is her cry for help. Each cut on her arm represents something that only she knows. No one Sun, 22 Nov 2009 02:04:32 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/lost-in-a-cave-with-candles.html Floating in an empty cave With candles above our heads From the light we swim away Protecting our flame For fear of having to spark another In Sun, 22 Nov 2009 02:01:11 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/they-always-leave.html everyone that I have ever fell in love with has left me one way or another. things would be going fine and then the next day she's gone and i can't Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:03:57 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/fear-of-abandonment-healing-jeff-continues.html Laura, thank you for such a nice response. What I mean is I have told her she struggles with these issues and she's says that she has dealt with Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:26:28 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/ms-laura.html Hello, I'm a woman in my mid-50s that recently began dating a man about 10 years older. I've been divorced for almost 20 years and have had a couple Thu, 19 Nov 2009 00:43:31 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/fear-of-abandonment.html Fear of Abandonment: Understanding what is happening...and what can be done...empowers you. Mon, 16 Nov 2009 15:20:47 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/depression-tests-T2.html Depression Tests: Seven unique depression tests to reveal your unique inner nature - because your inner nature has a lot to teach you. Mon, 16 Nov 2009 13:39:46 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/alternative-treatment-for-depression.html This alternative treatment for depression (Resonance Repatterning) is good brain science Mon, 16 Nov 2009 03:01:54 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/abandonment-issues-3.html Abandonment issues are a call to discover and meet your deepest needs in order to feel calm and safe. Mon, 16 Nov 2009 02:44:36 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/abandonment-issues.html Abandonment issues begin early, when fear and stress come with (or instead of) love and bonding. Mon, 16 Nov 2009 02:42:49 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/abandonment-issues-2.html Identify and release the core patterns of your abandonment issues. Mon, 16 Nov 2009 02:40:14 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/depression-poems-when-i-am-down-i-look-to-her-not-you.html When i am down i look to Her not you. I look to Her who gave me love, kind words, had God in her heart and always had a smile and hugs for anyone that Fri, 13 Nov 2009 00:21:10 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/how-to-deal-with-depression-RR.html How to Deal With Depression: Interview about waking up with worry, dread, and stress for PricelessProfessionals.com.. Wed, 11 Nov 2009 13:36:41 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/stress-reducer.html Free online stress reducer. 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She abandoned two sets of children. The set I am in is five. She never held me or loved me or brushed my hair or anything. I Tue, 13 Oct 2009 12:13:20 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/hmmm.html What is this #$@! all about. Why the tip towards the profane. What happened to setting an intention? This was on the depression quiz page of your Tue, 13 Oct 2009 12:00:36 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/hidden-potential.html My depression, I think, derives from my childhood more so that any other time. I constantly tried to fit in as a child, and was often hit hard with Tue, 13 Oct 2009 11:59:34 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/under-my-eyes.html Under my eyes Dark circles and lines; They are inexplainable. My friends occasionally ask me If I've slept last night, If I've slept at all. Turning Tue, 13 Oct 2009 11:22:54 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/treatments-for-depression-laura-at-home.html Treatments for depression: I've come a LONG way thanks to this new treatment for depression. Thu, 08 Oct 2009 11:59:49 GMT http://www.beat-depression-naturally.com/natural-remedies-for-depression.html There are important considerations with natural remedies for depression, and your diet for depression. Tue, 06 Oct 2009 13:59:42 GMT