Ms. Laura
by Laura
Hello, I'm a woman in my mid-50s that recently began dating a man about 10 years older. I've been divorced for almost 20 years and have had a couple relationships along the way. He has been married 4 times with relationships in between. He is very intelligent and we enjoy conversations and other similar interests, including tango dancing. The issue here is that he is very fearful of my dancing with other men, either when he is there with me, or if I decide to dance on my own. I have assured him repeatedly that I consider this just a dance and nothing more. He has admitted that he has had abandonment issues for a long time and as a result, his ultimatum is that I can dance tango or I can be with him. While I enjoy being with him, I have great concerns that this behavior will manifest in other areas, such as controling other things I do in my life. I would very much appreciate your opinion. Thank you in advance for your response. -Laura
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