I can dump people the second I feel like they're going to hurt me.
by Demi
(Los Angeles, CA USA)
I dump people as quickly as I love them. I can make someone "dead" in my mind. My mother taught me this coping mechanism. I am 39, never married and I am terrified to be close to someone. HELP!
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Demi- Please tell me more about your childhood losses. And your mothers' losses... We replay the past until we get resolution on what happened. What do you want? Do you behave in ways that destroy your chances? It is the past seeking resolution, and you CAN change.
with love
Laura