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~ Fear of Abandonment ~
Get Empowered~!


At its core, fear of abandonment is powerlessness.
All fears come down to a lack of power.


So it follows that empowerment is needed.
A lot of different things bring empowerment.


Understanding what is happening...
And what can be done
Is empowering.


When you understand your fear
You understand it is like a ghost.

A fearful ghost that disappears with the light of empowerment.


But...before we bring courage (empowerment) to your abandonment issues, a word about dis-empowerment.


I just read the top result on Google for “fear of abandonment”. It is sadly typical – totally dis-empowering.


fear of abandonment The article says:
“Dr.X describes fear of 
abandonment as a psycho-
logical disorder where 
the individual suffering 
from this illness cannot 
control the fear that he 
or she feels when faced 
with the idea of having 
to cope with life and its 
difficulties alone.”


The article explains "that abandonment issues can be treated with therapy as long as the individual is willing to use the therapist as a pillar to lean against while learning to be self sufficient." And yet another prominent "expert" article said that people cannot get over these issues on their own.


This kind of information is a disservice. It promotes the idea that if you have fear of abandonment, you are "ill" and incapable of dealing with emotional stress.

It is telling you to believe in the same powerlessness that supports abandonment issues in the first place.

Go to Part 2 (link below) to see how that makes things worse.

Is there any way to heal?

Of course – simple principles of brain science bring understanding, empowerment, and healing...and I provide some simple steps for you to take toward healing below.


Will that also help with depression?

Of course – fear is emotional stress and emotional stress is linked to depression.


How does courage (empowerment) fit in?

  • Learning the origins and behaviors of your fears helps you understand what kind of courage you need.

  • Understanding what kind of courage you need shows you what kind of positive action to take.

  • Positive action leads to acceptance.

  • Acceptance leads to courage.

  • Courage leads to growth and strength.


    Courageous, accepting, positive people who embrace growth
    are not afraid of ghosts. Voila’! (say: "Wa La"!)



    I help people just like you all the time. It actually isn't hard to shift into your courageous growing self.

    How calling it an illness makes it worse....


  • "I can't remember what life was like before because I am not that person any more, ~ but I do know I used to be pretty darned miserable." V.G., Software Engineer, Boston



    I am a Certified Resonance Repatterning Practitioner since 2000 and have offered phone session treatments for depression, abandonment, anxiety and more for years
    ~they work beautifully and powerfully.

    The safety of home allows for very deep healing. Each session also provides you
    with customized self-healing techniques.Laura Frisbie, M.Ed., CRRP


  • Contact   Email me to schedule a session or a time to talk for a few minutes before you decide.

  • Sessions are $60 per hour. (Typical rate for a certified practitioner is $100 per hour.)

    NEW CLIENT SPECIAL - New clients can do 3 x 90 minute sessions for only $240 in order to get a solid, deep break through. (I highly recommend this so you can see for yourself the transformational potential of these alternative treatments for depression.) Try one session before you decide and pay as you go, there are payment options to suit any situation.

  • About   Learn about phone sessions, what clients have to say, my professional training, or my personal life.

  • Sessions are $60 per hour. (Typical rate for a certified practitioner is $100 per hour.)

    NEW CLIENT SPECIAL - New clients can do 3 x 90 minute sessions for only $240 in order to get a solid, deep break through. (I highly recommend this so you can see for yourself the transformational potential of this process.) Try one session before you decide and pay as you go, there are payment options to suit any situation.

  • About   Learn about phone sessions, what clients have to say, my professional training, or my personal life.





    When fear of abandonment is called an illness, it only makes things worse. A LOT worse.

    Visitors tell their fear of abandonment stories. You tell yours.


    What is it like for you when your loved one has abandonment issues? Or, maybe you have suggestions for helps them. Share here.


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