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Depression Quiz - Feeling Hope Less

by Nancy
(Hamilton, Ontario)

I have had successes in my life, but lately it seems that for a number of years my career goals have never worked.

In 2006 I was excited to become a beauty consultant for a large cosmetics company. I worked hard at increasing my sales and product knowledge. After 10 months, I got a raise. Shortly following that one of my young daughters was struck seriously by a truck and within a week following the accident I was dismissed. I was devastated about my child and her injuries and also crushed due to my job loss, which was so unfair. I don't think I am over that and it has been almost 2 years.

I tried to pick up again and try something that expressed who I was and would make me feel useful and creative. I took home staging, paid to have a website built: fancy brochures, business cards: signage and attended many trade shows. That has been one year of trying and not one client from that.

I worked part time at a lighting store, to help make cash and hopefully get some contacts, but I have recently resigned as I can't afford to send all my kids to camp.

I feel like giving up.

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Depression Quiz - Feeling Hope Less

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Jun 28, 2009
Depression Test - Giving Up
by: Laura (webmaster responds)

Frustration and resignation are understandable. Do you mean giving up on your dream? But what else is there to do? Times ARE a BIT challenging right now, not a good time to draw conclusions!

You have not succeeded, but that is only because you have not found the how-to YET. Keep your energy for it alive, it motivates you. It separates the winners from the losers! Rather than see yourself as a failure, see yourself on the path, and the path is in the dark forest right now. IT WILL CHANGE --but only if you stick with it.

I'd say a block IS unresolved feelings about your old job. That was quite a blow. The best thing is to do a session about it. Second best is the Emotional Stress process on this site. DO IT! You can release a big hunk of "stuff" that will allow you to go into a fresh new start.

I just read about a woman doing staging who is setting the world on fire. I'll see if I can find her info. Just in case it helps....

You need a new way to see yourself. Make a list of everything you are proud of about yourself. Everything that you have going for you. Remember...the finest steel is forged in the hottest fire.

with love
Laura


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