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Depression Chat Rooms
Your Place to Share

In these depression chat rooms, visitors share everything from early childhood experiences to present day issues with relationships to depression poems. I do my best to respond.

Please join us! Feel free to ask for (or to offer) help by typing in the box below.


Sometimes people wonder if they have abandonment issues. It is often later in life before people say, "Ohhhhh, I get it! It's been abandonment issues all this time!" (I was one of those).

At any rate, click on this link to see about thirty submissions to the Fear of Abandonment Chat Rooms. You will find every kind of story you can imagine, from childhood scenes to present day relationship problems, written in response to my question. "Do your abandonment issues today have anything to do with your childhood?"



Some Q & A about being in relationships when you have fear of abandonment issues

I posted carefully thought-out responses to many of them. If you have something to share or a question to ask, please post it below for readers of depression chat rooms.


How far back do your abandonment issues go?

  • Do you think your fear of abandonment goes back to childhood?
  • How does it affect your relationships now?
  • Do you want to heal your fears so you can enjoy close, safe relationships?

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    Click the Q & A link above to see contributions from other visitors to this page...

    Fear of Abandonment - who is dad?  In my thirties,
    Just starting to realize
    The things I always thought
    Were never a big deal
    Mom said "If he were a real dad, he wouldn't have left
    He ...

    Trying to figure out myself  I've had a crazy life story. It always sucks when I meet a new person and they ask about my parents, I always feel uncomfortable and never know how to ...

    Fear of Abandonment - Me  I have fear of abandonment issues. I remember crying a lot in my crib alone with ear infections.

    My father refused to talk to me when I was upset ...

    Abandonment issues  My mother died suddenly when I was three. One minute she was there to help and guide me, the next minute she was gone. My family has always ignored my ...

    MOTHER AND SON'S ABANDONMENT  HOW CAN I DETACH FROM MY TEENAGE KIDS WHO NEVER CALL ME WRITE TO ME OR SHOW REAL LOVE TO ME ?

    I WAS REJECTED BY MY MOTHER THROUGHOUT ALL MY LIFE BUT ...

    Miss Volatile.  Well, here it goes:

    My Mother is severely bipolar, a horrible alcoholic and undiagnosed but terribly obvious Borderline Personality Disorder.

    My ...

    Depression Chat Rooms - 30 years  My abandonment issues go back to when I was 15 and life was secure and wonderful until my parents divorced and the rug got pulled out from under me at ...

    Abandonment as a child-trying to live life as an adult....  Being an adult with abandonment issues is terrible. This problem has plagued me my whole life. I was abandoned in an orphanage, then I was abandoned ...

    emotionally aware...now. :)  Laura, I have been knowing for awhile that I have had abandonment issues related to my childhood experiences of being physically abused at six months old(...

    Fear of Abandonment - Help  Please help! My parent's divorced in the summer, and I don't think my mom is able to balance us kids plus her college classes...

    She is always ...

    Fear of Abandonment - Adult onset abondonment  My husband, age 44, died of cancer almost 2 years ago. My mother died 6 months later (of cancer, but at 85) and my father died 6 years ago of cancer.

    After ...

    Laura's comment on Fear of Abandonment 

    THE MAN I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH NOW HAS HELPED ME REALIZE THAT I HAVE A FEAR OF ABANDONMENT. JUST BY HIM BEING SUCH A GREAT GUY THIS HAS HELPED ...

    I can dump people the second I feel like they're going to hurt me.  I dump people as quickly as I love them. I can make someone "dead" in my mind. My mother taught me this coping mechanism. I am 39, never married and ...

    Fear of Abandonment - Georgia boy  What about abondonment.. from a girlfriend? Why does it seem so hard to just let go and move on for me, and so easy for her?

    It is difficult when your partner has abandonment issues. How can you cope?

    depression support groups
    Then there is the other side of the coin, the people who are in relationship with us "fear of abandonment" messes. Whew! I am so thankful for my husband (my third). He was the only one able to handle me and my stuff. (I'm all better now, thank you!)

    Here are some true stories posted on depression chat rooms and please, add your own... Partners with Abandonment Issues

    Depression Poems

    depression poems Thank you, thank you, one and all, for your very beautiful and heart-wrenching depression poems. Sending you love and light always....

    Go to Depression Poems Chat Room

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    Child Abandonment

    depression support groups This depression chat rooms page was inspired by a woman who has been step-mother of a boy for five years, since he was 5 years old. He was abandoned by his mother and he "acts out".

    My heart goes out to all of them, as I work with adults who suffer from the unresolved wounds of abandonment. I'd like to support the care givers of abandoned kids with some practical ways they can help these kids...before they end up like us!

    I have so many ideas that might help someone in her position, with some way a caring adult could help a child move through some of the heart-ache.

    Then I chickened out. I had a hard time imagining normal people talking a kid through such intense things -- like I do in sessions with adults. It might be asking too much of them.

    I'm thinking I'd like to get a professional to offer some ideas, or maybe I'll interview an art therapist. I'm sorry to let it dangle like this.

    Maybe you have something you can share to help this page along.

    There is one story about Zella, by Zella. It was sumitted by the grown woman that Zella has become. Heart-breaking, beautiful, inspiring... Children with Abandonment Issues

    depression chat room How can I begin to thank you all for your submissions to our depression chat rooms? You make this site so meaningful, so sweet, so sad, so true, so inspiring...

    I feel honored beyond expression that you share yourselves.

    Any other topics you'd like to see for depression chat rooms? Anything on relationships, parenting, or self-help, for example? Just submit your thoughts in the invitation above and we'll see what happens.

  • "I can't remember what life was like before because I am not that person any more, ~ but I do know I used to be pretty darned miserable." V.G., Software Engineer, Boston



    I am a Certified Resonance Repatterning Practitioner since 2000 and have offered phone session treatments for depression, abandonment, anxiety and more for years
    ~they work beautifully and powerfully.

    The safety of home allows for very deep healing. Each session also provides you
    with customized self-healing techniques.Laura Frisbie, M.Ed., CRRP


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  • Sessions are $60 per hour. (Typical rate for a certified practitioner is $100 per hour.)

    NEW CLIENT SPECIAL - New clients can do 3 x 90 minute sessions for only $240 in order to get a solid, deep break through. (I highly recommend this so you can see for yourself the transformational potential of these alternative treatments for depression.) Try one session before you decide and pay as you go, there are payment options to suit any situation.

  • About   Learn about phone sessions, what clients have to say, my professional training, or my personal life.

  • Sessions are $60 per hour. (Typical rate for a certified practitioner is $100 per hour.)

    NEW CLIENT SPECIAL - New clients can do 3 x 90 minute sessions for only $240 in order to get a solid, deep break through. (I highly recommend this so you can see for yourself the transformational potential of this process.) Try one session before you decide and pay as you go, there are payment options to suit any situation.

  • About   Learn about phone sessions, what clients have to say, my professional training, or my personal life.



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